There was actually this weird stigma surrounding TC for a while about it being some kind of high school bully clique that got way out of control. Kaos has been pretty vocal about his distaste for said stigma and has gone out of his way to be like "We want to be inclusive!". He was the one in charge of the room for a while but recently it's been passed on to RobynS (A newer member. She's dating Tormented) and the way we see it. The more the merrier in chat.
I'm not sure how many of the members you really recall but if you're ever on TC you'll find the likes of myself, Smiling Politely, Kaos, Pkkao, Handsome, Kupomog, ThatsAPaddlin, Tormented, Jay Leno, OldSchoolerSimpsons, Torrens, Insomnia, RobynS, Deadname, Old Painty-can Ned, Super Nintendo Chalmers and more. Chat's rarely that packed at once but I'm sure you'd probably find yourself welcome enough.