You come off as very aggressive, brash, and loud like many others on this forum. I mean, you're not as bad as Sam, Tyler, Comeau, and I don't think you're trying to be a troll or anything, but that kinda personality rubs me the wrong way.
Nobody minds you and Sam being friends. If you two have a strong friendship and get along well, all the more power to you. What people find annoying is how you constantly spam the forum with lovey-dovey messages, and shut down criticism every time someone tells you to tone it down just a wee bit. If Shaun and Smiling posted the same kind of messages all the time, it would be just as annoying.